what makes a perfect partner?

Someone who knows what you need before you say it.
Someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry.
Someone who truly listens when you have something to say.
Someone that's there for you during the good and bad times.
Someone who is caring .
Someone who loves you with all their heart and soul.
Someone who is interested in reality and not as a fashion display.
Someone who is honest.
Someone you can trust them like a sibling, confide in like a friend but most of all, love as the great lover they are.
Someone who is open and responsive.
Someone who is never critical and ill-tempered in respect to your needs.
Someone who knows when things have to be compromised in the relationship.
Someone who understands listening is a key, but using what is heard is even more important.
Someone who's there for you no matter what.
Someone who is trustful.
Someone who is a friend.
Someone who gives a shoulder to cry on.
Someone with a great sense of humour.
Someone who has things in common with you.
Someone who takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else.
Someone with a constant open ear, open heart, and open mind to accept and love people for who the really are.
Someone who will always be there to support your ideas without argument and love you for everything that you are.
Someone that can get a point across without yelling.
Someone that remembers all the cute stupid stuff you love.
Someone that has a personality with qualities you don't have yourself, but admire greatly in them.
Someone who realizes you're two separate people, and appreciates the differences.
Someone who can sense a mood problem, and not take it personally.
Someone who understands the difference between PMS, and a real problem.
Someone who can make you happy when your sad.
Someone who tells you the truth even if you don't want to hear it.
Someone who will not hurt you intentionally.
Someone who is a sweet, romantic person who cherishes you no matter what.
Someone that you can laugh with.
Someone who you can feel comfortable with and that you don't care what kind of weird stuff they see you do because you know they will stilllove you no matter what.
Someone who will love you in spite of your little idiosyncrasies.
Someone that would do anything to show how much they care.
Someone who is a great pal, a great kisser, and a great lover!
Someone who allows you to be yourself around them.
Someone who will respect you.
Someone who cherishes your hopes and is kind to your dreams.
Someone who knows you're not perfect, but treats you as though you are.
Someone who listens with their heart and is your source of inspiration

the secret of the perfect relationship

Sometimes the good things in life are the ones where you don't have to call out the obvious, it just is what it is. Apparently even I don't know what it is, but whatever it is, it feels good to stand where I'm standing right now…even when I know it's going to end real soon.
I guess at the end of it, this wraps up my understanding about relationships between people. Why people have the relationships they have. Why some people who commit to lovey dovey things everyday still break up and why some people who barely do it can stay together for a lifetime. After all these years, after all my own failed relationships. I finally get. It's all about trust.
I have lived enough to know that there is no such thing as the perfect person nor is there a fairy tale ending, but I still believe that there are such things as a perfect relationship. Relationships where strengths compliment each other weakness, where equals and opposites are at the right place. Perfect relationships exists…it's just that we have to bring it out and that where things start to go wrong.
It is sad that the cynicism and unsaid insecurities are the diseases of the generations today. We live in a world where we always keep that part of us away from the world because we don't want to end up being hurt. The sad thing is…it's that very sense of distrust for the world that makes the world the miserable shell it is now.
How many times have we had opportunities lost because we were too afraid to grab the chance? How many times have we had things we have destroyed because we were so scared we were going to lose it anyway? How many times have we had the people we care for walk away because we didn't believe in them to care for us? Too many times I have seen it. Too many times I have lived it. I think it's time to change that.
Relationships with people are all about that trust. Trust to watch your back. Trust to care for you. Trust to believe in their abilities. Trust to open your heart to them and let them take you higher. How deep the bonds go between people depends on how well you trust a person to be themselves with you. Without that, no relationship would go anywhere.
And it shows…in the way we do things between people. Why do couples act all lovey dovey? Because when you think of it, touch is a way you can reassure each other that you're there for them, that you can trust them to be there for you. Why do friendships fail? Because you eventually realize that you can't trust a person enough to watch your back when the chips are down. So when you boil it down to that simple equation…all you need is to know the reasons why you trust a person. It doesn't have to be that you have to feel them. it doesn't have to be that you have to tell them. It just has to be that you are there when you need to be there.
Trust is something that is unspoken for. It cannot be told or written or felt. It is something you earn by the actions in which you live life between the people you're connected to. Without it, we are the very definition of the loners we have become. Without trust, there can be no connection with people. Without trust, there can be nothing to be entirely human about. Without trust, we are nothing more than living a lie in a nightmare of our own making.
I'm not saying that trust is something you should give freely. As I said, the world is a place that can burn you. It's just that by the end of it, the choice for how you want your life to be is entirely yours. You can take a chance and give your trust to people that earned it. Or you can take the chance losing out a life where anything is possible. I trust you can make that right choice. I really do.

how long distance relationship works?

Being in a long distance relationship isn't easy. It requires very strong trust, commitment, guidelines, and communication. Studies show that a majority of people involved in long distance relationships eventually break up. That's why you see so many "experts" proclaiming that long distance relationships are a bad idea and don't work. Yet if you learn to master communication and set the parameters of your relationship, it can work. It's an uphill battle, but it is possible, and many people do eventually become happily married as a result of being in a long distance relationship. 

i've fallen for you lyrics

What is this I'm feelin'
I just can't explain
When you're near
I'm just not the same
I'm tryin' to hide it
Try not to show it
It's crazy
How could it be

I've fallen for you
Finally, my heart gave in
And I'm fallen in love
I finally know how it feels

When you said hello
I looked in your eyes
Suddenly, I felt good inside
Is this really happenin'
Or am I just dreaming
I guess, it's true
I can't believe
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/t/toni_gonzaga/ive_fallen_for_you.html ]
I've fallen for you
Finally, my heart gave in
And I'm fallen in love
I finally know how it feels
So this is love

Doesn't matter where I am
Thoughts of you still linger in my mind
No matter what time of day
I've really, really
Fallen for you

I've fallen for you
Finally, my heart gave in
And I'm fallen in love
I finally know how it feels
I've fallen for you
Finally, my heart gave in
And I'm fallen in love
I finally know how it feels
So this is love

friend of mine lyrics

I've known you for so long
You are a friend of mine
But is this all we'd ever be?
I've loved you ever since
You are a friend of mine
But babe, is this all we ever could be?

You tell me things I've never known
I've shown you love you've never shown
But then again, when you cry
I'm always at your side
You tell me 'bout the love you've had
I listen very eagerly
But deep inside you'll never see
This feeling of emptiness
It makes me feel sad
But then again I'm glad
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/m/mymp/friend_of_mine.html ]
I've known you all my life
You are a friend of mine
I know this is how it's gonna be
I've loved you then and I love you still
You're a friend of mine
Now, I know friends are all we ever could be

You tell me things I've never known
I've shown you love you've never shown
But then again, when you cry
I'm always at your side
You tell me 'bout the love you've had
And I listen very eagerly
But deep inside you'll never see
This feeling of emptiness
It makes me feel sad

But then again
Then again
Then again I'm glad

Alone lyrics by heart

I hear the ticking of the clock I'm lying here the room's pitch dark I wonder where you are tonight No answer on the telephone And the night goes by so very slow Oh I hope that it won't end though Alone Till now I always got by on my own I never really cared until I met you And now it chills me to the bone How do I get you alone How do I get you alone You dont know how long I have wanted to touch your lips and hold you tight You don't know how long I have waited and I was going to tell you tonight But the secret is still my own and my love for you is still unknown Alone Till now I always got by on my own I never really cared until I met you And now it chills me to the bone How do I get you alone How do I get you alone How do I get you alone How do I get you alone Alone, alone

what is friendship?

Knowing there is another human being you can trust completely. Realizing that someone else wants the best for you, too. Providing a gentle haven where the other can be relaxed and feel safe. Helping solve problems without taking over your friend's life Sharing the grief times along with the great times. Being together without needing to pretend. Forgiving pretenses when they do occur.
Cherishing together the joys and traumas of change and growth. Nourishing one another's dreams, hopes, and decisions along the path. Encouraging your friend to stretch as far as possible. Receiving feedback without questioning motive. Easing pain instead of fueling the fire of hurt. Loving another person in spite of differences and imperfections.
Extolling virtues rather than expanding on flaws. Accepting a friend's anger toward you, as yours is also sanctioned. Sending love even when you're not together or in agreement. Coming to your friend's aid an expecting nothing in return. Freeing each other from the manipulations that undo many relationships. Dancing through life together, not trudging along toward death. Soaring to new heights rather than plunging into murk and mire.
Finding time to be together despite the obstacles of everyday living. Wanting no more than to be with your friend at that moment. Understanding the occasional need for distance. Taking up right where you left off, even after several years. Knowing that your commitment to each other is always by choice. Giving freely when appropriate and taking graciously when needed.
Divining each other's thoughts and feelings easily and often. Saying "no" without having to explain why. Winning and losing do not matter to real friends. Friendships are not instantaneous, they are earned. Friendships withstand the storms and upheavals of time. Friendships surpass the trite boundaries of acquaintanceship. Friendships often develop with improbable people at unlikely times. Friends know the difference between image and substance. Friends bask in the glow of the other's triumphs. Friends will be there when you need them. Friends are one of God's greatest gifts.

what is a true friend?

What is a true friend? A true friend is someone you can count on to laugh with you, cry with you and be there for you through good times and bad. Unfortunately, people do not come with a true friend label; you need to be able to spot the characteristics of a good friend.
Throughout your life, you will encounter many, many people. Some of them will become good buddies and some will become true friends. The difference between a good friend and good buddy is that the friend will be with you for life. Buddies come and go with school, work and neighborhoods, but a true friendship can survive being separated by continents.
It is very disappointing when someone you thought was a friend lets you down. It can be very hurtful when you lose a friendship. You may be sad, lonely and even angry with the "friend" who let you down.
While there is no guarantee that a friendship will last, you can look for several characteristics in a person. If they have the following traits, they are more likely to become your lifelong friend. Luckily, you will be able to tell if a person has these characteristics right away; they are core values that will be apparent in everything a person does.
Characteristics of a True Friend

• Honest and trustworthy: Can they keep a secret? A good friend doesn-t gossip about you. Do they tell they truth? If they lie to you or about you, they are not a true friend. At the same time, however, a true friend will always look out for you. If you ask a friend to keep something that's harmful a secret, like drug use or stealing, they may tell somebody in an attempt to get you help. That's not betrayal, that's caring.
• Good Listener: Do they listen to you or do they only talk about themselves? If you tell them that you don't eat candy, do they remember that?
• Loyal: Do they stick with you even when you are grumpy? Are they still your friend when your sick or out of money? If someone is gossiping about you, will your friend step in and put a stop to it?
• Available: Are they available when you need them? If you need to talk instead of going to the movies, are they willing to sit and talk with you? Will they help you finish your chores so you can go swimming?
• Supportive: A true friend will never make you do something that goes against your moral or religious beliefs. They will not ask you to lie, steal or cheat, or to do drugs or alcohol.

If your friend has these characteristics, you know you have found someone who is a true friend. Be a good friend to this person, and you'll benefit from this friendship for many years to come.

my favorites

Foods:

 Adobo

Adodong Manok

How to Cook Adobo?

1. Kill the chicken
2. Dress the chicken
3. Chop to small pieces
4. Boiled and wait until tender just add some seasoning MSG and Soy Sauce
5. Drain and Separate the meat

Part 2

1. Prepare 1 cloves of Garlic 
2. Chop 2 small onions
3. Salute to the a Fan
4. Add the Chicken Meat , pepper

5. Lastly add the Drain chicken stock
6. Wait until it merely dry and oily

 Dessert:

mango float

1.  Prepare the dish or Tupperware where you are going to put your mango float. You can use a square or rectangle shape of dish or Tupperware as long as it is big enough to accommodate your mangoes and graham.

2.

Wash the mangoes thoroughly. This time, peel the mangoes. Slice the mangoes thinly and set it aside. Mix the Nestle cream and condensed milk together and set aside.

3

Put graham crackers at the bottom of the dish, evenly. You can break the crackers into pieces or you can lay it whole. Fill the bottom of the dish with graham crackers.

4

When the bottom of the dish are already filled with graham crackers, pour out 1/4 of the mixed condensed milk and cream over it. Spread it evenly.

5

Then lay the sliced mangoes on top of the graham and mixed cream/milk. Put the sliced mangoes evenly then pour out another 1/4 of the mixed milk/cream.

6

Repeat the same process. Put another layer of graham crackers, then mixed milk/cream and mangoes. You can make up to 3 layers of your ingredients.
The top layer must be the graham and milk/cream mixture.

7

Put in on the freezer for an hour or until it is hard enough. When it is already hard enough, take it out then slice and serve. This is very delicious, sweet and good desert.

Places:

Boracay Islands

Boracay with its famous for its White Beach - so called because of its truly white beach as you can see - White Beach certainly is one of the most beautiful beaches in the world - may be second to the most beautiful beach i ever saw and experienced myself - a hidden beach white, wide and long.






Dress:

thank god i found him

The time goes by, it is accidentally that he enter my life. .In the first time i met him,i admit to myself that i feel so different for him..I ignored the feelings that exist because i know that we are not compatible each other..But later on,our friendship become stronger.The time comes that he court me.I'm not prepared that time but i accept his proposal.During that time,I told myself not to be confident to him.Hinayaan ko lng na our relationship will continue to exist.they said nga na don't expect too much because sometimes expecting too much can hurt too much also..months,days,hours,minutes,seconds passed we know each other.In that time,i know that meron syang relationship na hindi natapus w/ someone else.In that time,I decided na xa mismo ang pumili and he choose me..I'm so happy sa naging disisyon nya but besides i felt sad coz may nasaktan kami..Now,were happy for our relationship.I hope that we will last forever.Thank you so much for all the good things you've done to me.I really appreciated that you came into my life.My love for you defines forever.Thank god i found him.

hope with god

                  It is human nature to be afraid of being alone, and sometimes in our most troubled times we feel deserted by our family and closest friends. It is at times like these that we most need the companionship and love of those people close to us.   Perhaps we are carrying burdens that we don't wish to discuss with someone else, or maybe we don't wish to share our own troubles and sorrows on someone else. Don't be afraid of being alone because God is always there to guide and protect us..let us put ourselves to him always because he is happy that we are live by him.there is time that we are in the lowest point,that is normal in our life that sometimes we are in the top and sometimes in the lowest point.Don't lost hope because god will picks us and carry us.Don't be afraid to ask god for help.Never fear to ask him of his love because no matter you have done he is always there to love you.In the face of uncertainty there is nothing wrong with hope.

              In times of deepest despair, when all others avenues appear to have failed, the one source of rescue that would always work was to turn to God, the maker of heaven and earth, for whom nothing is impossible.  And so, in your own time of trouble, despite all of your own efforts, when you are tired of the struggle, and when you are weary from the fight, lift your own eyes to the hills and seek the glory of God Almighty to come to your aid.

God loves us always

adventure of life

Life is either a great adventure or nothing.Our life is full of adventure. .sometimes,were having some decision that we are not sure the consequences or the result.Destiny is not a choice, it is a chance.
It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.

Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside of us while we live.

Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal .

Family''

When we say family,what comes in our mind? family is a basic social unit consisting of parents and their children, considered as a group, whether dwelling together or not.

Filipinos highly value the presence of their families more than anything. Regardless of the liberal influence they have gotten from the west, the family remained the basic unit of their society. This trait clearly shows among Filipinos abroad who suffer homesickness and tough work just to support their families back home in the Philippines. 

In a traditional Filipino family, the father is considered the head and the provider of the family while the mother takes responsibility of the domestic needs and in charge of the emotional growth and values formation of the children. They both perform different tasks and being remarked separately by the children. Children see their mothers soft and calm, while they regard their fathers as strong and the most eminent figure in the family.
 

Because of this remarkable closeness, parents sometimes have difficulties letting go of their children and thus results to having them stay for as long as they want. For this somehow explains why grandparents are commonly seen living with their children in the Philippines. Unlike the way people grow old in the west where they are provided with outside homes and care giving, Filipino elderly enjoy their remaining lives inside their houses with their children and grandchildren looking after them.

Another trait Filipinos made themselves exceptional from others is their strong respect for elders. Children are taught from birth how to say “po” and “opo” to teach them as early as possible how to properly respect their elders. These words are used to show respect to people of older level. Even adults will be criticized for not using these words when speaking with their parents or people older than them. Inside the family, the parents are expected to receive the highest respect from the children along with the elder siblings; as they are given more responsibilities to look after younger siblings when parents are not around.

Children fighting back or addressing parents or elder siblings with arrogant tone are not at all tolerated. They are also not allowed to leave the house without their parents’ permission. Upon arriving home, conservative families expect children to practice the kissing of hands or placing their parents or elder family members’ hand to their foreheads with the words “mano po” as a sort of greeting.

Even after finishing school, Filipino children are not obliged to get out of their homes unless they want to. In fact, most of them keep their close relationship to their parents by staying at least before they get married. Leaving them happens only when they really have to, but usually, at least one child, depending on his willingness and financial capabilities, stay even after marriage to support and look after their aging parents.

More over, Filipinos keep close connection with other relatives. They recognize them from 2nd degree to the last they can identify. As Filipinos say, “not being able to know a relative is like turning their backs from where they come from.” so,take good care of what family we have now..god bless us all!

"inspirational messages"

 hello guys. .how are you?every day is a new day and we are very thankful to the Almighty for the every morning that we are still breathing and face a new day. .lets face it and creates something...

Why do we close our eyes when we sleep, when we cry, when we imagine, when we kiss? Because the most beautiful thing in the world is unseen. When you run so fast to get somewhere, you miss the fun of getting there. Life is not a race, so take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over.Life is a mixture of sunshine and rain, teardrops and laughter, pleasure and pain. Just remember, there was never a cloud that the sun couldn't shine through.Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. 

When you born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you are the one smiling and everyone around you is crying. Love is as beautiful as two people choose to make it!A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.Life is like a book. Each day is a new page. May your book be a bestseller with adventures to tell, lessons to learn and tales of good deeds to remember.
A smile is a language even a baby understands. It costs nothing but it creates much. It happens in a flash but the memory of it may last forever. Keep on smiling! The happiest person doesn't have the best of everything in life. Perhaps he is just good in making the best of everything that life brings along his way. Stay happy always!
Learn to appreciate the rainbow after cursing the rain. It's just like loving again after experiencing the pain! 

The beauty of life does not depend on how happy you are, but on how happy others can be... because of you. God Bless!It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich according to what he is, not according to what he has. Hello to one of the richest persons I know. God Bless!It's not the possession of good things that bring happiness. It is the ability to enjoy what comes. Happiness is an attitude.Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it.In words, love can be read. In actions, love can be measured. But others don't know that even in silence, love can be heard.No one can go back and make a new beginning, but anyone can start from now and make a happy ending.When you find a dream inside your heart, don't ever let it go.... for dreams are the tiny seeds from which beautiful tomorrows grow.Smile when in leisure. Smile when in pain. Smile when troubles pour like rain. Smile when someone hurt your feelings, coz you know, smiling always starts the healing!Every teardrop is precious so better make sure that if you drop some, its worth crying for, coz you can never pick them and put them back to your eyes. Love wisely!Life they say is touch and go. Some people you know may only be there for a time. Some may go away but people who find you special will always find ways to stay. 

One measure of friendship consists not in the number of words that friends can discuss, but in the number of words they need no longer mention. Life's a game, sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. But no matter what your cards in life, whether club, spade, or diamond, always remember - never play without a heart! Remember - you are worth not for what you have, not even for who you are, but for what others have become because of you. Wish you the best! When things go wrong don't go blue. Just pray and say I will get through. Always remember God Loves You!To be strong one should have faith in one's self and trust in one's strength. It takes strong heart to overcome every hardship that will come. Have faith in yourself and believe.

Life is a one-way street. No matter how many detours you take, none of them leads back. So enjoy life every moment as none of them will happen the same way again.The world is full of beauty when your heart is full of love. So start and end your day with love and smile in your heart. Have a peaceful day.Valuing a person is not merely seeing each other everyday. What counts most is that somehow in our busy life, we remember each other even just by saying "Take care".We are never given dream without also being given the power to make them come true.Life can give you a hundred reasons to cry, but you can give life a thousand reasons to smile. have a nice day everyone.take care always. .

"Set you free"

We were strangers with untold tales.A family has connected us.I listened eagerly to your anecdote in some ways I understood you.Every time you're there at the rendezvous.It was such a nice affectionate haven with you.You were already offering your amity But I was sightless I did not saw it.I was hectic looking for something else.Only a human being you got drained.I took you for granted to find a better one.Not knowing you you were already the best.I looked back to where you plunk.Lamented,too late I could not go back.You found someone better than me.Perhaps,I guess he has the best,not me.I attempted to make up with you But you were not concerned anymore.I was unaided,waited and somnolent.Impaired,longed,desired merely you.Even though throbbing crashed me.I was numb,still,I kept holding on.I could let go of  the sting.Never the happiness I felt with you.Decisively you spew it out,dumbfounded.The reason,the answer.I can finally say goodbye,abscond.Although it means I still love you.

you are very special:-)

I know from the beginning just how special you will be i just wish your thoughtful ways would one day be meant for me. .as time passes by my feelings for you never changed.your smile for me,is more than saying hi!,it turns my day into pure delight..your voice gives me special relief..whenever my heart aches.our friendship,for me is more than common...every time we meet,you always smile and laugh so sweet.you are strengthening me.in every problems and defeat i meet.you are there to comfort me and to ease my pains...  through all the things you have shared to me. i told myself. .You are very special to me..

my dream's main character

know what bothers me every nigth?it's the person i often dream of...never has he been clear in sight,.nor perfect as what i've imagined. .having that mysterious man in my dream,pictures out an enchanted scene.every episode of my dreams,he's there...taking my mind away from despair..joy and happiness i always felt.,under my blanket,asleep an my bed.awakened the next morning,inspired for the day.though to figure out who he is,how i wish and pray.....dream...oh! how i wish it is true, enchanted scene with only ME and YOU..